My senior colleague advised me to take a break and pamper myself a bit. He suggested a Five Star treat. I shook my head as I remembered my maiden visit to a Five Star Hotel.
I was posted in Kolkata, (then Calcutta), at that time. In those days, I used to travel in over-crowded buses reaching Office crushed and crumpled. On that day when I got down I found that my saree had a hideous tear right on the top fold. The repair could be done only after reaching my desk.
However, as soon as I stepped in I was told I had to accompany the Executive Director to a Five Star venue where he had to approve certain VIP arrangements for a high profile conference. Before I could blink my eyes, I found myself sitting in his car.
ED was a thorough gentleman. If he was aware of my discomfort he did not show and a casual conversation continued till we reached the hotel.
I could feel the doorman’s contemptuous stare at my attire and cringed perceptibly.
The manager who was showing us around was too busy impressing the ED. I could not make out whether he had noticed the tear or not but I for my part was unable to concentrate on his enthusiastic prattle. I exhaled deep and long when the time came for us to leave.
Ironically, thirteen years managing the hospitality section , visiting Five Star Hotels soon became as commonplace as eating Daal Chawal for lunch and dinner.
While discharging my duty I had to inspect all those quarters which stripped the premise of its glitter and glamour. The kitchen where the chef and his assistants sweated it out preparing expensive mouthwatering delicacies, the housekeeping section where promising interns from reputed institutes did menial jobs, the front office which steamed under the pressure of providing accommodation in peak seasons and the stark banquet halls before being decorated with chipped props carefully wrapped in snow white satins and matching pink sashes.
To me all hotels looked alike and its staff uniformly stilted in mannerisms. The only exception was Hotel Imperial which not only boasted of history and heritage but also a priceless collection of original sketches and paintings dating back to the pre-independence time said to have been recovered by a waiter from a heap of junk about to be discarded by the Hotel Management.
Now having seen and experienced it all, I feel a torn saree, a pair of tattered jeans or muddy chappals are too obscure a reason to mar human worth under any circumstances.
(This post was written when tattered jeans were not in fashion)

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Wow Di… your journey beautifully illustrates how true self-worth outlasts any facade …! ♥️
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Thank you Aparna so very much ❤️
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As always – pleasure is mine🎉🌹
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Loved your story! I think it is very cool you worked in the hospitality industry for all those years! 🤗✨
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Thank you Carol. But to be honest I did not quite like the job…I was more inclined to do jobs which required mental stimulation
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I deeply admire you for this GeetaJi. I am sharing post link in my WhatsApp status with a Marathi foot note for my students to get inspired from. 🌺🌺🌷🌷
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Thank you so much Rajendraji. Your appreciation means a lot 🙏
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It’s my pleasure !
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GC enjoyed reading.
The last message about human worth was strong.
After seeing the real work behind big hotels, did it change how you look at luxury places when you visit them now?
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Thank you Mr. P
There’s always a murky side to all professions.
I have a tendency to snoop under the covers of extravagance…
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GC, that is a rare habit.
When glitter is seen along with the hidden sweat behind it, luxury stops looking like magic and starts looking like hard earned art. Makes the shine feel more respectful.
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Exactly Mr. P. Thank you so much 👍
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Welcome, GC.
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great job and it amazes me how tattered jeans go in and out of fashion – and I liked that cloisng image
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Thanks Yvette. Yes fashion has a cyclic order.
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I like how you said “There’s always a murky side to all professions.”
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Yes, you can call it by any name – job hazards ?
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yeah – not sure either – but all jobs have some
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Great story. You might like this one: https://derrickjknight.com/2012/06/28/dinner-with-the-mayor-2/
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Thank you so much Derrrick 🙏
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I can imagine how you must have felt.
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Thank you so much dear Sadje
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You’re most welcome.
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