Delhites are aggressive. There may be many reasons for that. But not going into any explanation it would suffice to say their aggression finds expression in speech and action. Some go for coarse expletives while others use their muscles feely.
Resorting to obscenities is not the sign of sophistication. Behaviour of the educated and well mannered are marked by composure and controlled speech even in a state of annoyance. Having said that it is also necessary to ventilate anger or frustration when boiling over for one’s own health and emotional safety.
Like the “punching bag” room in the office I suggest a “hissing out” room as well in the safe territory of our residences where we can employ appropriate means of venting our wrath all by ourselves.
It will, I guess, act as an ameliorative without getting into any unpleasant situation. When you have that exact spluttering feeling as though mustard seeds have been put in hot oil for tempering you can just go into that room quietly close the door grit your teeth, hiss it out, use slang, shout and scream in extreme cases and even raise your fists at invisible irritants and after the rage show is over come out with a dignified gait as cool as cucumber.
Incidentally, in ancient times there used to be a kop bhavan or the Anger Palace where the queen would take refuge to make a point home to the king.
I am just asking for a room.
That too in all good humour.
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Didn’t Kaikeyi have one or was in one? I remember my grandma talking about it 😃!
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Yes, that is how Kaikeyi convinced Raja Dasharath to send Ram for vanavaas
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I think it’s a good idea.
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Hee..Hee…
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😂😂😂
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i think it’s a good idea too… a room in exchange for calm lol… its definitely worth it.
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Hee Hee 😆😆
Destiny … It’s really heartening to see I have so many compatriots…
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we have to stick together…🤭🤣lol…
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LoL
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Last week I wrote in editorial in Times about rage room
Why what happened with Delhiites
I am there for you from Maharashtra
Vent all on me
But you should live a happy life
My prayers 🌷
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Oh! So nice of you Rajendraji
But being a Delhite I am as much guilty as charged.
Rage Room ….what an apt name!!
Great minds think alike…😂
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Geeta Madam
Hasten to decline accepting such a huge compliment because don’t wish to repent later in dark corner of the room of conscience in mind.
That’s WTA which termed it as Rage Room.
I quote link to that post in next reply 🌷
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The room should be soundproofed 🙂
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Absolutely correct. I thought of it but missed mentioning it in the post. Thanks for the good piece of advice on engineering and architecture. 😆😆
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I have a wide space here for you, gc, but not a room🤩🤭 Happy weekend!
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Thank you dear Hazel
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A room where I could be angry, and express it? I’d love it! I want one of those, xo
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Even I want one Carol.
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