What’s your favorite recipe?
I love cooking.
Earlier I used to recourse to elaborate processes to prepare exotic dishes, especially, on holidays and weekends. With passage of time, increase in workload and responsibilities and nonavailability of leisure and health issues I have come to adopt processes less time consuming. And I find , even with shortened method, the meal tastes as good, if not better.
We Indians have a mindset about cooking – more the number of spices and quantity of oil, tastier the food will be – which is a misnomer. Also, we lay great emphasis on meticulously following the way a dish is required to be cooked. The laid down manner of cooking is obviously age old inherited from our illustrious ancestors who were undoubtedly master chefs.
Both my mother and father were great cooks. Mother, newly wed, was a novice in the kitchen. She learnt the art from her mother-in-law, i.e., my paternal grandmother. I grew up seeing maa spending hours in the kitchen. Cooking was not her hobby or passion but she definitely took pride in and identified herself with the job. Needless to say, she excelled at it. People were invited home to taste her culinary creations like mutton chops and kobiraji cutlets. However, often she would lament with a deep sigh that the dish did not turn out the way it used to be when prepared by aamu or my grandmother. Father, on the other hand, made regular meals, partaken on day to day basis, so tasty that those still linger on my tongue. He learnt cooking out of necessity when based in Lahore working away from family which subsequently turned into a hobby. Thus, we never went out of food on the table if mother was unwell, preoccupied or not at home.
Talking of conventional cooking, to give an example of the process, first the wok has to be warmed up and then oil to be put and heated up to the right temperature for the onions (diced or ground to paste) to be added and fried till translucent or golden brown as required followed by ginger paste to be stirred in till it’s raw smell disappears and similarly thereafter with garlic paste and lastly diced or pureed tomatoes to be mixed and stirred till oil separates and a nice aroma of well cooked masala fills up the kitchen. Then comes the veggies or the meat, whichever, the dish is to be made up of.
Cut two – today’s jet age where one has to be an efficient multitasker to survive, time constraint compels time management. So, daily chores have to be done in a manner so as not to encroach into time slots for other equally important activities. Understandably, processes have to be cut short without compromising on the quality of the outcome. With reference to the above-mentioned process of cooking, my experience says the taste of the finished product remains the same if we put ginger garlic paste together with the onions and cook them well (instead of putting them separately one after the other) which means two steps lessened in one shot. Sometimes I put all the four basics together and cook. Honestly nothing goes amiss.
Tough situations are always enriching as they teach you something new in adaptability. One of my bosses taught me to put every task into set formula for ease of discharging. Working with him, I learnt to structure repetitive tasks into lucid formats. As a result, the tasks were finished in no time.
Same with cooking most of which is stereotypical and does not really require intricate craftsmanship. Gourmet delicacies are not made everyday. There is nothing extraordinary about regular lunch and dinner which is made as per weather , stomach condition and sensory pleasure. Underscore the last is not to be minimalized in any way.
Since the day I have been advised (by Ortho) not to stand too long on my feet I have redesigned my cooking style, made khaana (meal) simpler (moderate on oil/ spice content) and time saving and reduced five (strictly against Bengali tradition of starting with bitter and ending with sweet) into two course meals.
Coming to favorites, of course, meals which are the easiest to prepare – de-starched rice with boiled daal tempered with a dollop of clarified butter or chhole or rajma which once put on stove with all the well stirred ingredients can be forgotten for half an hour till they soften. I can go on and on. The list is very long.
Fact remains I am a foodie and often follow super chefs like Ranveer Brar or Kunaal Kapoor on You Tube, Instagram and the rest. Brar has a tendency to make things grand in scale, execution and presentation. Kapoor is comparatively down to earth. For rare Bengali dishes I follow Lost And Rare Recipes, but frankly, more for the narratives than the recipes, Bong Eats etc. The secret is to grasp the tweaking in the ordinary made to look extraordinary. Once you catch hold of that you need not embrace boredom for the sake of ease.
Life, at my age, needs to be functional. For that the best option is to find happiness in simplicity – kam mein zyada or more in less.
All said and done I cannot renounce the pleasure of the palate. Notwithstanding my disenchantment with non-veg (I believe you can experiment more with veg), a few days back I prepared Chicken Awadhi simplifying my own way the recipe found on insta. At the expense of blowing my own trumpet, I must say and believe me, it was yummilicious – lip smacking, finger licking et all.
Wish to try some…..?










I agree with you. Mostly the end result is the same. I too follow your steps and have made my life easier! 🙂 Coincidentally, the Ortho told me the same, not to stand for too long! 🙂
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I hail from a place where ladies are known for their cooking abilities. I guess it is the love we pour in while making a dish that makes it unique and savoury. I mean love for the food as well as for one’s own self. We can create better if we love the creator as well as the created.
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Looks delicious! Nice.
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Taking a bow.
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🙏
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you’ve mastered the art of making the complex simple.
I happen to be a die hard vegan! 😀😀
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Thank you Mr. P. All your comments went to spam folder. Restored them. Thanks for following my blog.
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I unfollowed and then followed, since my comments were not to be seen. Now we both know the reason.
Thank you GC.
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I prefer non-spicy dishes. A pair of chapathis and some bland dish will do for me. But I don’t like cooking. I’m fortunate to have a wife who doesn’t mind cooking for me too. And it isn’t always as bland as I’d prefer!
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Your wife must be a great cook.
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